Radical Acceptance & Small Wins Tracker
Purpose:
This tool helps you manage frustration, reframe challenges, and build progress through daily wins — using Radical Acceptance and the Kaizen Philosophy (small, consistent improvement).
Part 1: Radical Acceptance Reflection
Instructions:
Think of one part of your journey that’s hard to accept right now.
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What’s one thing about your development, training, or situation that feels frustrating or unfair?
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How does resisting that reality affect your energy, attitude, or performance?
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What would shift if you fully accepted it — and focused only on what you control?
Example:
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Hard to accept: “I’m not getting as much playing time as I want.”
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Impact of resistance: “I feel angry and lose motivation in practice.”
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Acceptance shift: “I can focus on improving, earning trust, and controlling my attitude.”
Part 2: What You Can & Can’t Control
Instructions:
Make two lists. This helps shift your energy to where it matters most.
Things I Can Control:
Things I Cannot Control:
Part 3: Small Wins Goal Setting
Instructions:
Set clear, controllable goals for each time frame below. Keep them small — small wins stack.
Today:
This Week:
This Month:
Examples:
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Today: “Be vocal on defense all practice.”
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This Week: “Stretch and hydrate daily.”
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This Month: “Watch film after each game.”
Part 4: Reframe Your Challenge
Instructions:
Take a current negative thought and reframe it into a growth mindset.
Current Challenge Thought:
Reframed Growth Thought:
Small Wins Tracker
Purpose:
Celebrate the daily wins you control — mental, emotional, or physical. Momentum is built in small moments.
Day | Small Win #1 | Small Win #2 | Small Win #3 |
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Monday | |||
Tuesday | |||
Wednesday | |||
Thursday | |||
Friday | |||
Saturday | |||
Sunday |
Weekly Reflection
What small win am I most proud of this week?
What patterns do I notice about my effort, focus, or mindset?
What’s one thing I’ll focus on next week?